All fantastic advice! I believe he would thrive if able to take on more challenging work. Thank you for taking the time to explain each of your situations.
Yes, I think a big part of it is not wanting to stand out. I am now challenged with working with his teacher to find out ways he can work differently (not more). Perhaps an independent science project or a different novel or more creative writing assignments. He is strong in math, art and writing. I need to meet with her around some anxiety issues (probably best to write about those in another post...).
Thanks again!
