Thanks, I will write that in. The school does do that well - every class he's in has had an aide, and the current aide has been helping DS in the moment when possible. They have now brought in the new aide so that makes three adults in the classroom for 18 students. The aides I have seen while volunteering have been kind and skilled enough to drill down on whether resistance is from eyestrain, disorganization, or needing a break. DS won't request breaks for himself (part not wanting to stand out, part not realizing he needs one) so now that I think of it, I will write that in as well.
We have a wonderful neurologist (first came to her for DD4's febrile seizures) although it's possible she may refer us to a colleague for meds - she just doesn't have the appointments available. Talking to her in a couple of weeks.
