My DD is almost 4 1/2. She has not been tested yet. (That is another question.)
She loves art (drawing and coloring). Lately though, when she is coloring, if she goes VERY slightly outside the lines she will have a little melt down and will not finish that picture. I try to tell her that it doesn't have to be perfect. "You are doing great. Even mommy and daddy color outside the lines sometimes." But she will not listen to that.
What else can I tell her? What words would you use?