Thanks all. Well, I am open again to homeschooling, if we need to go that route. But, my dd really does want to try and be in a school. What we are realizing, is that she is having a lot of anxiety with this ps, it is huge, not making any accomodations, etc. I am touring the school this week, while she shadows. We are hoping it does work, but yes, a back up plan is homeschooling. We don't want to try another ps here, they are struggling with the common core thing, funding, and she has had enough schools - the private one we are looking at goes through high school.
Well, we will wait and see- but yes, I am looking into all the advice you all been given me. Thanks.