Thanks for the ideas. We're going to try Girl Scouts. We live in a smallish town so there's some, but not a lot of choices.. The drama and theater don't start until 10 and that's too much of an age difference to make me uncomfortable, but something to keep in mind for later. We can't afford after school, but maybe occasional hourly care might work. Never heard of destination imagination so ill look into that. Thanks for the support!