I went through a rather panicky stage with DD3.1 when she was about 2.5. I am in a much calmer place now and I think that has a lot to do with support I found on this forum as well as finding a variety of school options for DD. We have plan A (Montessori), plan B (gifted school), plan C (homeschooling), plan D (cyber schooling), and plan E (relocation). So finding appropriate educational placement options for your son might be a good place to start.
As far as meeting their needs right now, I’m staying home and we do parent participation pre-school 2 x week for socialization and unschooling for the rest of the week. One of the advantages of having an early reader is that you can leave them with a stack of books and they’ll teach themselves. I think it’s the love of learning that we need to nurture throughout their childhood. As long as DD has that spark in her eyes when she is talking/reading/drawing about something she feels passionate about, I know we’re on the right track.
