A lot of it is the picture that is presented to the world. DS10 is off the charts but you would never know it by his actions. DS8 is much lower MG but uses every ounce of brain power to excel. DS8 is driven, super competitive and pushes himself to his limits. The funny part is that a large part of it stems from wanting to be like his big brother. Big brother spends entirely too much time skating through without effort.

My boys are not related as DS8 is adopted, so the genetic piece is not there but the behavior is.

Shari
Mom to DS 10, DS 11, DS 13
Ability doesn't make us, Choices do!