Thanks for the replies. After several meetings, and a call to the school from the head of the gifted center, the school has come around. They came back with a proposal to put the kids in K for Monday and Tuesday all day when they focus on math and reading. The kids will be with pre K class the rest of the week for specials and projects. Im hopeful this will be an improvement. It allows the kids to keep connected to friends in pre k while getting more appropriate work in math and reading.

I was impressed at the amount of effort and planning the school put into this once they got over the hump.