Oh Isa,
I wish, wish, wish there was a Dutch group like this! I guess you could call or email the University of Nijmegen and ask them about if the instructions say that a 4 year old can be given the harder items if she tops out her age-group, and ask them about local support groups for parents of high tester, yes?

Love and More Love,
Grinity

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