I have 3 children within 3.5 years of age. They are inseparable and enjoy each other a lot. If my 8yo boy, the oldest, qualifies for DYS and the other two do not, I wonder if it would bother them. Our middle child had his IQ tested at school and scored in the 110s, which I think is fair. I think our youngest is smarter than the middle child but not as smart as the eldest. If only the middle were not in DYS, that could bother him even more than only the oldest being in DYS.
Can anyone who has both children who do and do not qualify for DYS comment on how (if at all) the non-DYS child has been affected?
