Thanks for the suggestions.
We had a tiny breakthrough this weekend as we encouraged DD to write a note to her Grandma. The key was getting DD to write even if the spelling was wrong. After some persuasion, she finally did it. DH and I were so proud that she TRIED and made a big emphasis on the trying bit, not on the end product. I hope she just tries writing at school this week. I do feel for her, being a perfectionist myself.
If anyone else has any suggestions on how to climb this mountain, I'm all ears (or eyes, I suppose).
