If the school says "no" to testing DD9, then I'd say consider testing her privately.
(You might make sure the school will accept private testing first though, to save yourself the $$$ if they won't...)
Needing an ID is definitely a good reason to want to test! Perhaps the very best reason!
In our letter to the school, we asked specifically what evidence we could provide them to warrant further testing. We also asked what they would do with private test information. We haven't heard back, and it's been almost two weeks. I think I'll look into it today. DD9 is miserable right now.
