Does it look different than in others?

We are having our 6 and 4 year olds screened next week. We have not had IQ testing done with either child,but we feel they both have 2E tendencies.

Does anyone have any suggestions for approaching this so that we don't just get a doc to offer meds because that is not what we want. I also feel that our 4 year old has sensory problems which are exacerbating his issues. Do we want a full evalution with a psychologist? I'm obviously new to this and want to make sure we cover all bases before getting a diagnosis. Our family doc is rather layed back and this is going to be a hurdle,so I feel I need to present it in a way that will make him realize it's more than boys being boys.

Thank you