We have tried Concerta and Vyvanse and they have caused Depression and anxiety tics. I need to know if there is a better medication and if I should buy an expensive,online, dyslexic program.
On the medication: there are lots of other options out there. You should be relying for this on an expert prescriber (developmental pediatrician or psychiatrist) who really sees a lot of kids, gifted and otherwise, who have ADD.
Is your DS in public school? Have you requested that they do a complete educational evaluation? If not, have a look at the book From Emotions to Advocacy, which tells how to get this done. Having the diagnosis from outside will help; in your shoes I'd share that information with the school and have them look closely at the situation.
If it's public school or a charter, you will need to get the school to put an IEP in place: they should be remediating the dyslexia, the sooner the better. Do they have any Orton-Gillingham or Wilson method-trained teachers?
DeeDee