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#6502 - 12/28/07 08:09 AM
homeschooling groups
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Registered: 08/22/07
Posts: 970
Loc: New England
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I saw Q and Kriston started a discussion on homeschooling and I thought I'd bring it up here.
Homeschooling groups of all kinds exist all over the country. There are groups exclusively for unschoolers, classical homeschoolers, Christians, gifted, etc.
I live in a rural community 45 minutes outside any major city. My group is not easy to locate, but we have small posters up at local libraries and have a contact listed on the state homeschool organization web site. There are about 200 families on our email list. We attract people from up to about 30 minutes away from our "hub". Most of our big events are in one particular town, in the community center building or a park.
It is impossible to say how important our group is to me and my family. It is an inclusive group, welcoming everyone who home educates their children, regardless of ethnicity, color, or creed. We have diehard unschoolers as well as strict classical homeschoolers, but most of us seem to be more relaxed and/or eclectic. We have friends who are Jewish, all flavors of Christian, Muslim, and Wiccan. Just this morning, the mother of the Wiccan family was telling me about how they celebrate Winter Solstice.
Regular events include the annual: science fair, International Day, National Day, Spring Fling (Prom), and Family Fun Day, which is a fall kickoff BBQ and outdoor game day.
monthly: board game day, craft day, and two teen events
and short term classes arranged by members such as: swimming, dance, art, gymnastics, science, drama, book club, and more
Naturally, we also have informal playdates as well, which can last for many hours or even a couple days! LOL, my husband likes to tease that homeschooling is a misnomer, as we are rarely home for a whole day.
I will say that I make social activities a priority. I feel that the social and emotional stuff is vital, and my kids are pretty well able to feed their heads without a lot of time or effort. I see my oldest with Asperger's, and he is SO smart, yet struggles with everyday interactions. I wish we could trade off IQ points for EQ points; I'd do it for him in a heartbeat.
Anyway, there are many groups out there, and if you don't find one that rings your bell, you should consider starting your own. All it takes is 3-4 families to get started.
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#6503 - 12/28/07 08:11 AM
Re: homeschooling groups
[Re: Lorel]
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Registered: 09/19/07
Posts: 6145
Loc: Midwest
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Thanks, Lorel! I knew you'd be better at answering this sort of question (for Questions!  ) than I am!
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Kriston Mom to DS13 and DS10
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#6516 - 12/28/07 03:58 PM
Re: homeschooling groups
[Re: Kriston]
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Registered: 11/24/07
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Thank you. I just wanted to know more about home schooling. This afternoon, I followed your leads and looked into some of the local groups around here and sent out emails. I don't want to home school, but if I have to down the road, I'd rather have the knowledge ahead of time.
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#6524 - 12/29/07 12:39 AM
Re: homeschooling groups
[Re: questions]
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Registered: 09/19/07
Posts: 6145
Loc: Midwest
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You're so right. And even if you decide to afterschool instead of doing the full-on home schooling, you might find groups to give you some guidance, support and fun activities to do with your DS. Very smart of you! I wish I'd planned ahead so that our emergency home schooling would have been something less of an emergency! 
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Kriston Mom to DS13 and DS10
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#6531 - 12/29/07 07:20 AM
Re: homeschooling groups
[Re: Lorel]
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Registered: 08/22/07
Posts: 970
Loc: New England
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I realize I must sound like a homeschool cheerleader, and I apologize for that. I just want to demonstrate that the social aspects of homeschooling can be quite rewarding. It seems that too many people have an idea of sitting alone with their children in the house day after day, and Mom or dad's brain turning to mush as it shrivels from lack of adult conversation. In reality, a homeschooler does not have to be on task form 8 am to 3 pm, as their learning tends to be much more efficient. There's no waiting for the teacher to answer their question, no standing by while a classmate is disciplined, no time staring out the window waiting for slower classmates to finish their work. So most homeschoolers have MORE time free to socialize or to pursue hobbies and special interests. More on activities: Usually anyone can step forward and run an activity. If I see an opportunity my kids might enjoy, I call around or post a query to our group e-list. Some activities are one time only. Last year, a mom organized this: http://www.talklikeapirate.com/Some kids chose to dress like pirates; others displayed reports on famous pirates, both real and fictitious. It was a hoot! My son ran a pokemon card game tourney a couple years ago. We had kids from age 8-14 take part. There are also field trips to see maple syrup made, volunteer with Heifer International, attend the Nutcracker, view an IMAX film, spend a day at a historic village... Have a great day!
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#6535 - 12/29/07 08:08 AM
Re: homeschooling groups
[Re: Lorel]
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Registered: 11/24/07
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I have to thank you both. This has been a very valuable "conversation," and through the links provided, I have found some great resources, including our local gifted association and gifted homeschooling association. For us, the homeschool issues would be: 1) I work; 2) my family would freak out - they have enough trouble with DS as it is, since he's so clearly not like other kids to begin with; and 3) I'm just not sure what's best for him. Interestingly, this morning he told me his ideal school would be hands-on (after all, the scientists at NASA don't just do the calculations - they build the rockets, too). He also told me for the first time that school is boring because it's too easy. He wants to be doing the calculations to build those NASA rockets, not wasting his time with the easy stuff. So I'm educating myself as to how to best educate him. And looking for other gifted children for him to hang out with. And maybe some additional activities through various local homeschool groups. So thanks again! And here is one of the great links I found that I thought I would share with all of you. Definitely helps me with our constant web searches: http://www.emints.org/ethemes/resources/by-grade.shtml#9_Happy New Year!
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#6549 - 12/29/07 09:15 PM
Re: homeschooling groups
[Re: Lorel]
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Registered: 09/19/07
Posts: 6145
Loc: Midwest
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It seems that too many people have an idea of sitting alone with their children in the house day after day, and Mom or dad's brain turning to mush as it shrivels from lack of adult conversation. True! I always deadpan that we lock DS in the basement and just toss books down the stairs to him so none of us has to speak to anyone. tee-hee-hee! But seriously, I worried about all the same things with home schooling before I started doing it. It's SOOOO much easier and more pleasant than I thought it would be. It is NOT "school at home," which would be socially isolating and painful; it's a totally different, much more laid-back animal. If only I could keep the house cleaner, have more time alone, and find more time and energy to devote to my book, it would be darn-near perfect for our family!
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Kriston Mom to DS13 and DS10
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