thanks for your response. Sorry, I forgot to say that she is only three and a half now: I took her for an evaluation wondering if she had ADHD and they gave her an IQ test. I seriously thought she was too young and she actually did fine, but I know she could do better. They kept saying how great she did--she did have one subtest in the 99th percentile but her overall was "only" in the 97th, which didn't sound quite right to me. My gut tells me it is higher, but I could be wrong so I was wondering what it sounded like to an outsider. I just didn't know if I should just accept where it is now or think about retesting at some point in case it is much higher and we will need to do something as soon as kindergarten. If it is an accurate portrait, in a way that is easier since she could just go along with the pack and just find school very easy.
I forgot to add how terrifying her memory is for anything. She can repeat dialogue for a two hour movie without seeing the pictures, memorizes long songs so fast, and on and on and on. She remembers details like the color of someone's shoes a year ago. She can tell you there is a holly plant, there is a turkey's snood, there is a dogface butterfuly, that's a poppy, and so on and she may only have heard these things once in passing but things stick. She uses complex sentence structure and uses up to five syllable words.
She was very cooperative for the test and had a great attitude, but she got some things wrong because she said too much: example: tester: "where does milk come from?" Her: "mommies, whales, mammals..." they wanted cow for some weird reason she wouldn't say cow though she knew that milk comes from cows. I am not sure when and if to retest and what would be gained by that at this point. I just don't think regular kindergarten is going to be right.
She has two more years before kindergarten and can already do a fair amount of first grade work. She is at a play based preschool for socilization twice a week for a few hours, but I am not sure what to do next year for preschool or for kindergarten. This year they are doing things she knew at one. I think she is verbally way up there, a 4, but her math abilities might be lower.
Last edited by TwinkleToes; 12/02/09 03:00 PM.