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#44250 - 04/11/09 08:11 AM
Academic "red shirting" - are they really gifted?
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Registered: 02/11/09
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Hi, Just thought I would bring up the issue of academic red shirting (when a parent holds their child back a year, regardless of birthdate, before kindergarten soley to gain an academic advantage over peers). This has become quite an issue in our school as many kids in the gifted program are a year older than their classmates. Since our school relies soley on achievment testing at the end of 2nd grade to determine eligibilty for the gifted program, many bright, more mature children who are not really gifted get into the program. The immature gifted kid often gets passed over. Our PTO moms brag about how holding their children back gave them an advantage & some have held all of their kids back for the same reason. I cannot imagine a Mom of a truly gifted child ever wanting to hold their kid back "so he gets more practice with the basics". Maybe if the gifted child has other special needs I could understand. However this has not been the case here. It's more the "thing to do". Anyone else have experience with this?
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#44253 - 04/11/09 08:43 AM
Re: Academic "red shirting" - are they really gifted?
[Re: Jen74]
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Registered: 02/17/09
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Here in NYC most kids enter private K at almost 6. They would consider a child who turns 5 during the summer, or even the spring in many cases, "too young" to start Kindergarten.
So my gifted son, who really needed the small classes only available in private schools here, would have had to wait a year-- which is a terrible idea for a truly gifted kid.
There is no way to redshirt in NYC public schools, because the birthday cutoffs are strictly enforced and actually really late (Dec. 31) (They are this late so that parents who struggle to pay for day care will have free day care as early as possible)-- BUT gifted programs are actively sought here by almost everyone as an alternative to "bad" local schools, and people routinely and aggressively "prep" their children for the tests. So many kids who are bright but not really gifted in the sense we discuss here are in the gifted programs.
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#44255 - 04/11/09 08:47 AM
Re: Academic "red shirting" - are they really gifted?
[Re: bronxmom]
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Registered: 06/30/06
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Just don't "stereotype" all of the red-shirts in the same box. DS's best class buddy at the moment is an August birthday child who "should" be in 7th grade. His mother is a teacher, and probably had some of that "best to wait" mindset, but also in talking to her, she said her then quiet awkward 5 year old just wasn't ready for K. Academically? Yes! But socially/emotionally, he just wasn't. Did she make a mistake? Who really knows, but the kid at 12.5 is definitely thriving now (in 6th), and seems no worse for the wear. And he is definitely gifted, as we hold to age based norms in achievement and IQ for entrance. And he's a great peer for DS, 2.5 years his junior,  .
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#44256 - 04/11/09 08:54 AM
Re: Academic "red shirting" - are they really gifted?
[Re: Dottie]
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#44259 - 04/11/09 09:32 AM
Re: Academic "red shirting" - are they really gifted?
[Re: FrustratedNJMOM]
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Registered: 09/20/07
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There are some families who choose to do this locally. I also know a few families with younger girls they tested to get into kindergarten early.
With the local push to all day, very academic kindergarten, I can't say that I blame some parents. Particularly those with young active boys. There were a couple bright boy's in kindergarten with late August birthdays that were shamed all year into "good" behavior by trips to the principle's office and time outs, etc. I'm not sure that's a good way to set up for a happy and successful school career. There was also one boy in my son's K&1st grade class that was older - July birthday. But was still struggling with reading even though both his parents teach at the college level and are highly engaged parents. So in his case, it was totally the right decision. It really depends on the kid and the kindergarten's and first grade's classrooms they are going to. On the other hand there was a boy in DS's kindergarten class with an April birthday held back reading a couple years beyond grade level who was acting out at every turn. He definitely should not have been held back
My October birthday HG+ son still had an adjustment to all day kindergarten. It wasn't horrible for him, but I wouldn't say he just jumped right in and loved it. Academically, it would have been fine a year earlier. Behaviorally and socially - not really. Half day would have been ok. It's hard to know. It clearly wasn't a good fit in many ways.
Our district uses the NNAT. Which is not ideal by any means, but it's normed by the month the child is born. So getting IDed as gifted shouldn't necessarily be affected by your birthday anyway. Although, it is affected by your ability to focus on a group test in a classroom clearly. They are still over IDing in some cases, and missing kids in other cases just using the NNAT though.
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#44276 - 04/11/09 02:08 PM
Re: Academic "red shirting" - are they really gifted?
[Re: kimck]
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Registered: 02/11/09
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St Pauli girl - loved the article. Red shirting hasn't exactly effected us yet, except my hg DS 7 is asynchronous in a few areas (mostly social/emotional) and his teachers compare him to a bright boy a year older. My friend was told by her daughter's K teacher that her daughter was behind & said she was very young (she was 5 with an August birthday). She was being compared to classmates, >80% of whom were at least 12 months older. When I mentioned this to a CST director/school psychologist she said that year doesn't matter at this age. I respectfully disagreed with her. When my friend's daughter started reading in 1st grade it really struck me that if her Mom had held her back the teacher surely would have pegged her as gifted. She' a wonderfully normal and typically developing kid - bright but not gifted.
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#44279 - 04/11/09 03:33 PM
Re: Academic "red shirting" - are they really gifted?
[Re: FrustratedNJMOM]
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Registered: 08/13/08
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Other people's academic redshirting was what started our big problem with the K teacher this year! My DS started K at 5 with an April birthday and was a normal (though HG), wiggly 5 year old boy. His teacher within 2 days wanted to know if we were sure he was ready for K and wanted him evaluated for fine-motor disabilities. I assured her that he is just 5 and that he'll come along. She insisted that he go see an OT. Sure enough- he's "normal" for fine motor. It just happens that he is the ONLY boy in her entire class (and for the last 5 years she said) who started K not either already or almost 6.
She continues to argue that his coloring is below level, wants me to hold him back for coloring and hand weakness because he has no "stamina". She's even taken DS's coloring pages and finished them for him so he could "have pretty work too." I've reminded her politely, and then not so, that putting numbers in order from 1-15 all year long is not a stamina problem, it's a lack of interest problem. Give the kid some 3 digit math problems and he has laser focus and stamina!
I don't mind people redshirting because they have a reason (social/academic or whatever) but redshirting so your kid can be the biggest? That bugs me. We have a dad in DS's class that actually has said "Well I got beat up in junior high and I didn't want that to happen to him." He has built a bully on purpose... that's sad.
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#44281 - 04/11/09 03:41 PM
Re: Academic "red shirting" - are they really gifted?
[Re: OHGrandma]
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From St. Pauli's article: Lubotsky says parents still need to weigh children’s needs and consider holding them back if they are immature, can’t sit still in class or have other issues that could affect learning. But he says the study’s bottom line is that kids are generally best served by starting school as early as possible.
“Kids get so much more out of just learning,” he said. “Whether they go to school earlier or later, that’s really not going to matter much at the end of the day.” So doesn't that suggest that early entry should not only be considered but encouraged for gifted 4yos? My ds6 has a May birthday and went to school "on time", so he's one of the younger first graders. I'm soo glad he wasn't a fall birthday because we'd have had a time deciding whether to go for early entrance or to wait until he "should have" started. He did have some immaturity issues, but I don't know that those were due as much to age as to inappropriate curriculum. OHGrandma, I totally agree with you here: They're [gifted kids are] going to float to the top 5% on a nationally normed test. I think that's very true and I think using achievement testing probably catches almost all of the young gifted students -- as well as a few high-achieving older students. If the assessment process for your school, FNJMom, used teacher inventories, then I think there'd be a bigger concern. Since it's straight-out achievement testing, there's less bias against younger, wigglier kids. (In my humble and most unprofessional opinion, LOL! I have no way of knowing if that's true, it just seems logical to me.)
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