When Success Leads to Failure: The pressure to achieve academically is a crime against learning.
by Jessica Lahey
August 11, 2015
The Atlantic

Is that what we want? Kids who get straight As but hate learning?
This article introduces Jessica Lahey's new book, the #1 new release on Amazon -
The Gift of Failure: How the best parents learn to let go so their children can succeed.

She is too worried about Marianna’s future achievements to allow her daughter to work through the obstacles in her path. She wants to give Marianna everything and yet she forgets that her best childhood experiences likely arose from the thrill of facing challenge, from the moments she lost herself in the trying and, when she failed, trying again to accomplish something all on her own, simply for the adventure and pleasure inherent in learning something new....
Carol Dweck's work is among many sources cited in the book.