I recommend reading the book “Finding your own North Star” by Martha Beck. I think it will be particularly helpful for those navigating big life decisions who have high ability and personal identity tied to achievement.

I wish I would’ve thought about these two things when approaching a career choice: what will my life and lifestyle be like with this career choice and how will this career choice grow with me… will I always be learning?, do I want to do this when I’m 40? Etc.