I do not have a child with special needs, but when I was touring schools in NYC, there was one that was known to deal with all kinds of needs. Special technology, one on one assistants. I do not know what high schools deal with this, but this one particular public school was tailored for special needs kids. It was a mixed school. So most kids did not have special needs. And the classrooms with kids with special needs were a max of 10 kids.