As Indigo said, this is EXCELLENT advice. I'm deeply grateful for you taking the time to consider and respond with BTDT experiences. My son is not at all frustrated or upset by his behavior. Happy kid. In fact, he's proud of some of the parts of himself that are found on ADHD checklists. Interesting note about the rating scales being administered by his doctor. The psychologist didn't say this, but explains the response I've been getting from the clinics I've reached out to. If we decide to have them administered, I'll request through his doctor. Thank you, thank you!