I am really glad I looked up bay area because I live in the DC area, and TOTALLY thought you meant Chesapeake Bay area. I was going to tell you to move to Fairfax or Loudun because they have the highest funded school systems in the country, buuut theirs this large thing called the great planes, and its smack dab in the middle of the two coasts. and don't try to make her an extrovert, it won't work. maybe get her tested to see what her grade level is? and then skip to that grade?