Originally Posted by ultramarina
Personally, I feel like this is not really so great for kids. It may be great one day when they are adults. MANY adults strongly DISLIKE this from a child. I wish we had negotiated less when DD was small.

A lot of adults dislike this for reasons that reflect poorly on the adult, so there's nothing you can do there.

Then again, it's also important for the child to learn when to stop.