Originally Posted by Portia
We love the stories by DS2.8, Aquinas. DS also refused to potty train before the age of 3. It had nothing to do with ability. He knew all the steps. When I asked him why he refused to use the potty, he calmly told me, "That is a 3 year old activity. I am not yet 3 years old." Sure enough, when he turned 3, he was ready.

I love that self-possession, Portia!

We've had a potty for almost a year now because DS showed all the signs of readiness--without actual interest. I think there's something to be said for respecting children's internal timelines, like you and SAHM have done with your sons.

On a frivolous note, DS is so tall and slim that I don't think even the smallest underwear would have fit him much before 3 anyway!


What is to give light must endure burning.