Sounds quite a lot like my DS4.2! lol ... they are fun kids, aren't they? DS will be starting public district pre-school in a few days and I am already scared! He does have a PDD-NOS diagnosis. In terms of Asperger's ... if she really did have Asperger's or Asperger traits ... would she be placed in a different classroom or still the same one? Our public preschool is only for kids "at risk" so there is no "normal kids" class. It's kids with speech issues, developmental issues, Autisum spectrum, and other kids where they suspect future problems once they enter elementary school. Is there a reason why you would NOT want her to be evaluated for Asperger's or other disorders?

Sorry, I don't really have any answers for you ... all I can say is I decided to just enjoy the fun quirky side of DS and not let the other things bother me too much.

And public preschool teachers, at least in my opinion, should be able to handle this kind of behavior. If not, than it's not a place for them to be.